Everything changes. the world changes. people change.
I once had a best friend. for a long time, i knew i could depend on her. she changed.
I don%26#039;t understand how anyone can fully trust in someone, when they could always just change.
If everything is constenly changing, how can you be sure of anything, or anyone?
The cosmos is in constant change which we can know from study and so it is with all material things. Even when we think there is no change there is. As mortals we are either progressing or regressing there is no static life in the material nor the spiritual.
We can know the future by the past and the present. We can only know and love another when we get to know them. We can know there true self but we can never know their true motives, only God can know motives for He knows our thoughts.
We can trust that which we know through our personal experience, but nothing beyond.Just why we can trust Deity for in our personal experience with the Davine is the assurance of trust.
Some put their trust in their truth but this is a fallacy for truth is relative and changing as knowledge is expanding. It is their beliefs that are fixed and in this fixation is their trust in that which is changing. Just why so many cannot accept that their truth is not the truth which is expanding through Knowledge.
If everything is constenly changing, how can you be sure of anything, or anyone?
Put your trust in God. He never changes. That%26#039;s all I can think of to answer your question.
the good news is people don%26#039;t change that much, and it takes along time for most things to change drastically.
Your old friend was probably a little unstable, personality wise. If she is, then her instability won%26#039;t really change, just be glad you won%26#039;t be there to get hurt by her again.
so life changes a little bit, but there is consistency in it, and it is almost always within a trend. The best thing to do is to become aware of the overall trend of a person or a thing, then you can have some expectation of what may happen next. That is how to empower yourself, nothing magical about it.
I have found it very important to know myself and who I am, what I want, and what I want for the world. If you know those things then you can trust yourself. If you trust yourself, you can never be failed by anyone or anything.
Don%26#039;t trust the future (change). Trust what is happening now. You could trust your friend before, but now after she changed you can%26#039;t. We have to adapt to change, it%26#039;s in our nature and we have evolved to be like that
I am exactly the same way as you are. It%26#039;s our paranoid and anxious minds that does this to us. Everyone at some point gets stabbed in the back, you just have to keep trying really. If you don%26#039;t have faith in anyone to not hurt you, you%26#039;ll never be able to trust someone. It really all depends on your view of life, no one knows if they can trust someone fully, all you can do is try. Just judge carefully who you try with. =]
You can%26#039;t.
Thats why we get hurt, eventually you will be let down.
But keep everything at face value and you will be fine.
Dont rely on the unreliable, but trust the trustworthy
That%26#039;s why people become religious, it%26#039;s called fate.
Change is okay and it is mostly for the best. However, you have to invest in people that you feel will change (that%26#039;s a given) but they will still keep your best interests in mind.
You%26#039;re never going to be friends with the same people, perhaps some, but everyone drifts apart eventually. It%26#039;s the natural eb and flow of things and the older you get, the more you%26#039;ll realize that without change, we%26#039;d all be sitting around bored with one antoher.
You can%26#039;t, really. It%26#039;s hard to trust anyone, even if you%26#039;ve known them for years.
We can%26#039;t be sure of anything. Even health related, they%26#039;re always coming out with new studies that say old ideas were wrong. How can we know anything they%26#039;re telling us now is true, and won%26#039;t change in 50 years? The fact is we relaly can%26#039;t.
But that logic is not very practical, so my philosphy is that we just need to base our lives on what we know because it%26#039;s all that we have. Otherwise we would just crumble. It%26#039;s better to focus on accepting the change and working with it when it actually comes.
Oh... yee of little faith!
Now why should everything be as you wish?... no fun in that!
Better to have lost and loved than to have never loved at all.
Of course everything changes.... good, bad, real bad, the best!
Come on...... don%26#039;t be so negative!!!
My saying is:
My glass is not half empty....it%26#039;s half full and that means there is always room for a top up!
See god%26#039;s gift to us all!
I love Him and the angels... and no, im not a bible basher do-gooder!
He wants me to live, love and have free will too.... what a guy!!!!
I am happy things change, wouldn%26#039;t life be boring?!!!!
Everyone does change looks, attitude, but they are always them. If it seems like they really do change, they are just covering themselfs up, and trying to find who they are. Its always only temporary because they will always be the same inside no matter what. You have to find somebody to trust with many things in your life because you cant hold so much inside. You have to take chances, because if you don%26#039;t you will never find out who u CAN trust, because there are people out there so take a chance, because chances are you will find out you can trust them, and if you can%26#039;t, well them learn from your mistakes, and don%26#039;t trust those kinds of people...
hope that helps
inflation, recession, depression. you wont be able to for at least 20 more years. inflation snowballs everything right to depression. good luck, stay sane.
Trust in the nature of the tangible and verifiable truth, no matter how hard it may hurt. The truth is unchanging from the beginning unto the end and to embrace anything which contradicts the nature of the truth is to allow oneself to become governed by a lie.
The universe is chaotic, I will admit that, and there is little in it which is factually stable. The concept of stability in the eyes of humans may just yield to a state of stagnation because everything must continue flowing like an endless turbulent river to allow the process of destruction and renewal to commence.
Things are constantly flowing and changing, and yet, they also remain the same. Your friend may have changed in her opinions and behaviors, but she is still the same person she was the day before...
See, people who really love and care for you don%26#039;t change much. And those who do ain%26#039;t worth your time. Most of our lives are spent in differentiating between these two kinds of people, you%26#039;ll come across retards on the way, but u%26#039;ll find the good ones
too.
Cheers !!!
Something to remember is that you cant, u cant rely on other ppl and things always being the same. Its just a fact of life it doesn%26#039;t work that way. Look for eg. Dinosaurs they changed there extinct. One person U SHOULD be able to always rely on and be sure of is yourself. Always listen to that little voice in you%26#039;re head (its called you%26#039;re conscience) usually everyone has one. Just remember look before u leap, think before u speak. Oh and y not...... keep your nose clean.
Only thing one can be sure of is that a person is living, and we all are going to leave this earth someday. Most people don%26#039;t do major changes in their lives unless something goes wrong like a lite bulb goes off in their mind, or a major catastrophe happens, and when this does happen their core doesn%26#039;t, things they do and their thinking changes. So learning to trust a person is based of their words,do they honor what they say, do they tend to say one thing and do another, if so you can%26#039;t trust them, or if they have trust issues they may give you a hard time; because they are afraid of being hurt again, this type of person may abort your relationship with them, but normally you can tell because their are always questioning your ability to be honest with them. A Mainly we have to trust God and our own instincts about humans from life experiences. So dive into life with the Lord he will not let you down, because he knows peoples hearts better than anyone. Try not to get into any relationship with out consulting him especially marriages.
you%26#039;re right. i think about this all the time.
its hard to know anything or anyone anymore.
Nothing these days is for sure...i wish i could help you with ur question but how can i if i have the same question?
You trust someone or something until you have reason not to any longer. If people change for the worse and you get burned, you then have to change and not place any more trust in them. Just because a friend may change in the future doesn%26#039;t mean you can%26#039;t trust them right now. You need to have awareness to go along with the trust. Awareness that anything and everything could change tomorrow.
thats life for you. you can even change. sometimes its for the better and sometimes its for the worse. but whats done is done and the key to that is acceptance. that is was trust is all about. your putting yourself in a position where anything can happen and its a chance you have to take.
A very poignant song, indeed, in my top 10 from the 60s.
The Young Rascals - How Can I Be Sure Lyrics
How can I be sure
In a world that%26#039;s constantly changin%26#039;?
How can I be sure
Where I stand with you?
Whenever I
Whenever I am away from you
I wanna die
%26#039;cause you know I wanna stay with you
How do I know?
Maybe you%26#039;re trying to use me
Flying too high can confuse me
Touch me but don%26#039;t take me down
Whenever I
Whenever I am away from you
My alibi is tellin%26#039; people I don%26#039;t care for you
Maybe I%26#039;m just hanging around
With my head up, upside down
It%26#039;s a pity
I can%26#039;t seem to find someone
Who%26#039;s as pretty %26#039;n%26#039; lovely as you
How can I be sure
I really, really, really, wanna kno-o-ow
I really, really, really, wanna kno-o-ow
(Oh oh oh ...)
How%26#039;s the weather?
Weather or not, we%26#039;re together
Together we%26#039;ll see it much better
I love you, I love you forever
You know where I can be found
How can I be sure
In a world that%26#039;s constantly changing?
How can I be sure?
I%26#039;ll be sure with you.
AND IT COMES WITH
Complimentary “How Can I Be Sure” Ringtone
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you%26#039;re right.
there%26#039;s nothing you can be sure of.
So why not live life to the fullest and forget everything else?
